If my Dad was a politician…

…my life would have been anything but ordinary.

I was mulling about this last night and dozed off  to see my thoughts go live in my dreams.neta3

If my father had been a politician, the mornings in our household would have been spared of the fights over grabbing the newspaper, for then there would be plenty of them, many featuring news about my father too. I was actually excited about this idea initially, but it didn’t take me long to feel worried by the fact that,  it would be a disturbing start to my mornings on many occasions. I am not trying to doubt my father’s integrity or him continuing to be a good Samaritan, but you know how the media sees things in a variety of lights trying to find reasons why someone did what.

I’d have to try to keep calm when the news channels would try to link my father to the dirty games of politics and other disturbing happenings. I am sure if that would be the case, I’d be more regular with yoga for the sheer rise in the need to de-stress than it is now. There would be a battalion of helpers at home, but our morning cup of tea would continue to be made by me, for my family loves it that way.

My visits to the gym or for a jog would have bodyguards accompanying me to ruin the blissful feeling of being on my own, giggling when I see a puppy roll in the dew soaked lawn or a cow mooing joyfully for there aren’t any vehicles on the road to block her way. But, it wouldn’t be all dull for you never know, a bodyguard could change the world you live in, if he is something like Lovely Singh (Salman Khan in the movie Bodyguard).

Leaving the lighter notes aside, I realised that it actually would have been fantastic to have my father hold a position of power in the government.  It’ll help make all the dreams we share while discussing the newspaper over the breakfast table see the light of possibility of the change actually happening. I am sure, all the solutions we have been thinking of fighting inflation, corruption, concerns about security of women, tackling issues with our neighboring countries, terrorism, dealing with captured terrorists and many more, would at least have a way of reaching the law makers. I am aware that it wouldn’t be so straightforward, but still a way would exist, after all the politicians are the only people with the right to decide in our democracy.

From my pet dog to my daily routine, from my hair stylist to the tailor all would find a spot in the media. I wouldn’t have to bother burning the night oil, toiling to make it through the competitive exams for just a mention of my father’s name would do the trick. Graduating through ace educational institutes would be a cakewalk. Vacations would mean international locations, no worrying about the IRCTC site ever loading for all travelling would be by air.  No need to fight with the local sabziwala over the complimentary ‘dhania – mirchi’,  to no sweating in the Sun to lodge complaints about power troubles in our society, for the basic utilities would be free, unlimited and paid for by the taxpayers of our dear country.

There would be a big mansion to be called my home. The life of a princess I often read about in the page 3 columns would unfold, making me the talk of the college, university & every occasion I happened to be a part of. Getting VIP passes for the IPL matches to tickets for the premier shows of Shahrukh Khan’s movies would have been a breeze. My closet would have dresses, shoes and accessories in the range of number of hair on my scalp. I’d never be short of friends to hang out with, no issues of security even in the wee hours of the night for I’d always have a bodyguard to take care.

Just as my dream was gliding through the pinkest patch of never ending delight, suddenly a thought rose like a soap bubble. How could it be, that a position of power only be a bed of roses without thorns? Given the political scenario and the colossal power the politicians harbour in our country, I had to really think deep as to what could I possibly be missing out on.

I didn’t have to to look too far for I could imagine, being a politician my father wouldn’t be the happy common man that he has enjoyed being all his life. He’d be busy either attending meetings, trying to make his noble ideas heard or fighting back the swarm of corrupt people who would make his very survival tougher by the minute. The stress that kind of a situation would bring along, is too much a cost to bear for the goodness or say luxury I could possibly enjoy being a politician’s daughter. But, the call of the hour is, someone will have to make a move, take an initiative to bring about the change. we just can’t lead selfish lives trying to push responsibilities over to others.

No doubt, we would always be surrounded by humble appearing, power-fearing, soft-spoken people, but finding true love or true friendship in this ‘driven by selfish needs’ world would be comparable to finding a bottle with a genie.

I’d have the luxury to be driven around in chauffer driven cars, with no worry of what the petrol costed, I would have unlimited access to the cooking gas, no need to worry about how many days my cylinder lasts, no worry of litter and garbage around my home, the roads around the house would be smoother than the freshly buttered toast.

I was struggling to make a pick. Whether to let my father be a politician for the good of our country as an honest leader who would represent the common man, as against a man who suddenly earns the ticket to lead a reckless, luxurious life sponsored by the country’s taxpayers.

My dilemma ended with a jolt when my mother almost yelled saying, “It’s already half past eight and you are getting late for the job interview. Wake up, I won’t come to wake you the tenth time”

Oh well, time to jump on the bandwagon of being the ordinary woman chasing a job. Thinking about my last night’s dream and being forced to get up for an interview, my verdict is, no harm if my dad opts to be a politician, at least I’ll get to sleep without having to sacrifice my beauty sleep worrying for a job.

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Bed Time

Everyday around bedtime Pari & I lie together and talk in our own way about all that we did during the day. On many days, I actually doze off giggling to her gibberish bed-time stories before her, only to wake up after sometime having a little princess patting me gently with her little hands, an occasional hair ruffle and tender kisses just the way I put her to sleep.

Words can’t do justice to the feeling of warmth that fills my heart every night. It isn’t just love but gratitude too. An emotion tinged with gratefulness towards life & God for blessing me with something so precious as Pari.

The song on my mind: Juhi ki kali meri laadli ~ Dil ek Mandir

Moving ahead

Thank you everyone who shared their valuable inputs & personal experience in my post, Finding Answers.

I am feeling a lot better now having made many changes and decisions since that day. Firstly, ranting about the many confusions & insecurities circling my mind was a major step in freeing myself from them. I had been trying to get away with them letting time to soak them up, but unfortunately like always only writing about it could rescue me.

I have started disciplining Pari a little more strictly than I was earlier. I think it would be more appropriate to say, that I have now started being firm with her which I am sure was lacking all this while. Earlier I used to try to explain things to her, be very serious with her but somewhere I was being more of a friend than a parent and that lack of firmness, I guess was the result of my constant failure.

The first time I refused to give in to her kicking, hitting, screaming tactics, she responded with going quiet. That silence, absolute lack of resistance and looking away from me hugging her favorite soft-toy made my heart stop for a while. The silence was deafening. But, I had to keep my stand, I have to do it many times again and I am going to do it. Discipline in life is mandatory. Teaching the right behavior is a very tedious task, but a necessary one.

Things are slowly changing. It’s too early to call them positive but yes, there is a definite change of gears as far how I am handling things.

I have started working on a lot of other issues that I learnt about from the helpful responses on my earlier post.

Among other things I am trying to concentrate on Pari alone whenever I am with her. It’s tough while juggling many household chores or trying to grab a few moments of me-time, but I am trying my best.

Another important point is I have come to understand that my ex is my past. I need to move out of his shadow while dealing with Pari to be able to see things in current perspective and as issues of child behavior alone. I am determined to slowly curtail till I totally minimize the thoughts of blaming my problems on Pari’s half pool of genes that she has inherited from her father. It’s sad that my insecurities often raise their head to confuse me enough to go emotionally unstable whenever trials come.

Having said that, since my vision is getting clearer, I can see rays of hope fill my system. This self-analysis shall continue in the coming posts too, for I think I have managed to cover just the tip of the iceberg in this post.

The song on my mind: Kuch Dil ne Kaha ~ Anupama

My Life My Rules

  • Title – My Life My Rules – 18 Stories of Unconventional Careers
  • Author – Sonia Golani
  • Publisher – Westland Publishers Ltd. India
  • Genre – Inspiration
  • Pages – 226
  • ISBN – 978-93-82618-27-0
  • Price – 250 INR

Synopsis: Work fills up a large part of our lives. To be happy, it is imperative that we like what we do. Most of us are guided into a career by our parents, families and surrounding environment largely on the basis of time-tested conventional careers.

Some step out of the charted path along the way and choose what they want to do and there are some whom the work chooses, what is usually termed as destiny by the people. This book is focused closely on 18 such people who listened closely to the bidding of their heart and set sail on that path, freeing themselves from the shackles of clichéd social parameters of success, etc.; choosing inner peace and happiness over what is expected of them.

Review: When I first read about this book, it at once clicked the right spot in my mind. I am in the middle of the mega transition phase of my professional life. My personal life has been the driving force behind my making a shift in my field of occupation. But, the good news is, life is being generous in letting me think well and decide what I enjoy doing and then do it for the rest of my life to make a living.

This book is a beautiful celebration of work and life, that takes due care not to be preachy about taking up offbeat careers. Featuring 18 celebrities from different walks of life who came from various fields of academics makes this book an inspiration for all sections of the working class.

Each story explodes conventional myths about the professional choices of a cross-section of people, proving that switching careers mid-stream is not a bad idea at all. The book shares an interesting insight into the lives of the people, their family back grounds and all the other factors that helped shape them to be the individuals we know them as.

Rahul Akerkar better known as a celebrity chef and the owner of Mumbai’s fine dining restaurant, Indigo has a Masters in Biochemical Engineering from the US. Harsha Bhogle is an alum of IIM Ahmedabad but is a world-renowned cricket commentator. Amish Tripathi is an alumnus of IIM Calcutta with a successful corporate life, but was nonetheless convinced that what he wanted to do was write, and write he did; the Shiva Trilogy, a consistent chart topper. Nikhil Chinapa, Aditi Govitrikar and R.Madhavan also feature among the 18 celebrities shortlisted.

The language is simple and lucid and the anecdotes quite relatable and presented very interestingly.

Every chapter talks about a new story and has a sketch of the celebrity that adds to the charm of the book without distracting. I echo the author’s belief that the list of people with second thoughts about their jobs or degrees will grow.

This book seeks to inspire every working individual from young professionals to senior level managers to opt out of the rat race, chase their dreams and pursue a profession of their choice for inner happiness, success and a long-term career. Success and monetary gains shall follow on their own.

Rating: 4.25/ 5

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Finding answers

Everyday I open my blog and plan on writing a post, but the one issue I so desperately want to talk about prevents me from writing beyond the initial few lines.

I am plain confused as to how to address the situation that has been taking a toll on my life, my peace of mind and is making me feel lack of energy and time all the time.

Pari’s violent tantrums. I am not sure if it is normal for her age, for very honestly getting enough time to browse and read articles online hasn’t been possible owing to lot of reasons. Prime being fatigue and issues with the wi-fi at my home and lately WordPress eating up my long drafts mysteriously. Anyway, I digress.

I am well aware of the extreme behavior gene Pari has inherited from her father. The kind of angry outbursts she shows having striking resemblance to that of her paternal grand-father and off course her father. But, that is when the big BUT steps in my life. I believe, genetics is a major determinant. Agreed. But, I can’t just sit and watch her do all she feels compelled by a rage attack and say, “She’ll do it cause she has acquired these traits.” That is so not me.

I am not trying to fight her or to fight back nature but instead trying my level best to find a solution, find a way out and about this tricky mess of a situation. Had it been happening once in a while, I wouldn’t have been so concerned, but these angry outbursts have slowly taken up the role of being the best buddy of her toddler stubbornness. Each time I refuse to let her do or get what she is eyeing I am punished. Either by stomping feet, yelling, throwing the things in her hands or near her, banging her head against the chair if she is sitting on one, to even biting me and hitting me.

The mother in me has been putting off from writing about this particular series of events from a long time, but I think I can’t play the cool me anymore without finding a vent to my piled up emotions. Hence, I am finally trying to capture all these trying times on my blog. I am quite sure many of you are startled by my description of Pari’s behavior, my mother too is. It is because, her own daughter has always been the coolest and most obedient daughter she has ever come across. So all this is pretty shocking for my parents too.

Though, I have a very different perspective to this whole phenomenon, if I may call it one. I have lived with a man who showed this kind of angry outbursts as an adult while I was at the receiving end. The good that came out of this evil is, I know it well how Pari’s mind is working each time she is doing something similar. But, the real worry gnawing at the parent in me is how to control this behavior at this very stage, how to nip it in the bud before it blooms to create an angry monster in my precious child.

The worry has been burning me down. The sleepless nights are back. The extreme fatigue I feel during the post-dinner time when I am trying hard to work on the Internet keeps me from reading up anything useful. Or should I say I many times try to take a break from the emotional ride I live all through the day trying to balance the disciplinary in me with a soft-hearted mother, that I often choose to read something light and humorous.

The bad news is, struggling and juggling to be a single parent has started taking a toll on my peace of mind. I seem to be logged with a double share of worries of being both a mum and a dad to my daughter. Yes, my parents are there to help out, but I can never make myself turn off the thought that “I am solely responsible for everything Pari needs to have in life”. I don’t know if it is a good thought or a not so good one, I always see myself standing on the first line of responsibility, which I feel should be the way.

The quest to find answers, comfort and solutions has just started and here I am already feeling nervous about will I handle the mammoth responsibility of being a single parent. Every stepping stone makes the journey one stone shorter, so I’ll be back soon with more chunks of my life as a parent and how I am dealing with them.

The Song on my mind: Ye kya jagah hai doston ~ Umrao Jaan

Toke

  • Title – Toke
  • Author – Jugal Mody
  • Publisher – HarperCollins Publishers India
  • Genre – Fiction
  • Pages – 216
  • ISBN – 978-93-5029-340-9
  • Price – 160 INR

Synopsis - This is a story of a boy named Nikhil Parmar who leads a monotonous life working as a software engineer. He secretly admires his colleague Suparna and has never mustered courage to speak to her let alone express his feelings for her. His life goes for a tailspin when he decides to take a break from his dull life with his college friends whom he hadn’t seen for a long time. That’s when Lord Vishnu in his modern-day avatar steps in along with weed. (The cover of the book quite well portrays that aspect of the story)

A combination of sci-fi antics mixed with zombie scare paints the scene in myriad of colors the most prominent of those being Green. Lord Vishnu entrusts the task of saving our planet and humanity to Nikhil and his friends, which brings to life many unexpected twists and turns in this thriller book.

Review – The Urban dictionary defines Toke as: To take a drag of a marijuana joint/spliff.

The story starts on a good humorous note that makes the start quite entertaining. The events at Nikhil’s office are very relatable. Things take a dingy turn when the weed steps in the story. Given the title of the book you can well imagine that marijuana occupies a key position in the story.

I found the drugged scenarios getting too dramatic on many occasions even though they are to be imagined in the backdrop of a hallucinated mind. The part played by the Japanese twins does help to lighten the smoke clouding the plot, but fails at finding logic to many of their choices and preferences. The principle task of saving the Earth from zombies seemed to take a backseat being dealt with in a rather haste towards the last quarter.

I personally found the language bit offensive. The over generous use of the F word acts as a deterrent to the flow of the book. Though I can understand the use of colorful language to do justice with the kind of environment portrayed, but it was too bitter a pill for me to swallow or appreciate at ease.

The book loses steam soon and becomes a difficult to finish expedition owing to the story not getting anywhere close to the mission mentioned in the start, with a hasty ending.

I am probably a bit old-school as far my reading preferences go that hampered me from enjoying this book.

It would make for a breezy read if colorful language & raw humor interests you.

Rating: 3.25/ 5

* Thank you HarperCollins for sending me a review copy of this book.

Tresemme – My Magic Wand

Life gifted me with beautiful hair,

silky, shiny but that needed great care;

When they started losing their volume and flair,

I started hiding them under wraps & scarves,

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trying my best to visit a salon before every important affair.

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That wasn’t practical and was burning a hole in my pocket,

just when TRESemmé sent my way a magic potion packet.

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My hair felt salon ready following every wash,

saving me lots of time, money and hassle.

Now I am ready to walk the ramp of life,

sporting gorgeous hair styles & being experimental,

Everyone loves my hair no-matter how I wear them,

as much I enjoy these fun, fashion, melodies on my tresses.

Be it the short and casual,

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Long and formal,

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Vintage hairdo to steal hearts,

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or

Gorgeous curls for walking down the aisle as a bride,

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All have become possible, only thanks to TRESemmé;

that has so lovingly erased all bad hair days from my life.

If you are wondering how could just a shampoo,

make my hair look great

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also make me an expert at stylish hairdo.

Here’s the little secret;

I browsed through the awesome styling videos,

that stepwise,

helped me re-create these beautiful styles,

to suit my mood & occasion with a new look,

each time I walk the ramp of life.

The French Twist is my favorite for dates, parties & occasions,

Tidy & elegant from all criterion.

The Retro Pin-Up style for bigger celebrations of life,

For birthdays, pageants and weddings.

The last but among the most important, the Office Look;

To change the monotony and add some glamor while at work.

My everyday favorite is a High Ponytail,

simple yet intoxicating like ale,

that I twirl & style at ease,

making one of these masterpiece.

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Now my hair feel happy and ramp-ready

cause of Tresemmé in my life;

The magic wand that gives salon style hair,

with just a wash, brush & dry in air.

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Make Up

Make Up is something Pari absolutely loves.

She has a special place in her heart for the  full-size dresser mirror we have in her grandparent’s room. Whenever Pari doesn’t have any special agenda as trying to get all the fruits down from the basket, trying to explore the fridge  or playing in mud (which are soon going to be talked about in detail in other posts) she spends her time admiring herself, posing, smiling and enjoying looking at her funny faces in the mirror.

So much is her fascination for the reflection of herself, that if I ask her to come to me or bring any of her toys to play with, she’ll answer looking at herself in the mirror just to catch a glimpse of herself while replying to me.

I sometimes imagine her growing up and saying Kareena Kapoor’s famous line, “Main apni favorite hoon” (which roughly translates to: I am my favorite).

She tries watching the TV looking at herself in the mirror so that when there is nothing exciting on the screen, she has the prettiest girl in the whole world to admire; herself.

She patiently watches each one of us getting ready and how we apply every cosmetic. The very next time you pick up a box/ bottle, you can see her doing the action we do when applying the product from that container. Nowadays, I just need to tell her, “Pari creme kaise lagate hain?” (How do we apply creme?) and there she tells me by pretending to get hold of the creme and how to apply it and where all.

The same exercise is repeated for applying hair oil, combing hair and every other thing. This habit has a positive side too besides full on entertainment. Every day when I bathe her or brush her teeth, she is ready for action and helps me rubbing her hands to soap and even to wash off the soap. Its absolute fun seeing her getting hold of the bottles in sequence and handing them to me to apply the moisturizer, oil etc on her.

It’s a challenge trying to keep every cosmetic out of her reach else she coats herself in it in an attempt to practice to apply it well and also tastes a little in the meantime. Oh well, that’s the scariest twist to her new-found obsession with cosmetics and its associate products.

Besides she recognises the dresses she wears at home, or when we go shopping and which ones are to be worn for the parties. You can see her get excited about going out in the car and bringing her shoes to be worn just by seeing the dresses I pick from her wardrobe.

Nevertheless, she still doesn’t like any soap on her face and anything on her hair, that includes both oil and shampoo. Hair accessories are taken off the second they are clipped and she doesn’t enjoy any bangles either.

Though I am sure all of this slowly going to change over time, hence I am trying my best to record all details.

The song on my mind: Hey Pretty Lady by John Michael Montgomery (for lyrics click here)

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Difficulty in finding time & energy to scribble down all of Pari’s antics in one post to make note of all she has been up to lately has been the cause of long breaks in my writing. So, I have decided to scribble them down into few line, frequent posts to get the project rolling.

Of all the roles Pari has started playing the prime one is of being a Drama Queen. She knows how to patch up with me by acting extra sweet and calling out ‘Mumma’ very sweetly. She keeps a fake smile plastered on her face and you can see her trying hard to please me if I have scolded her or have caught her red-handed doing some mischief.

The next act that she has come to master is pretending to be sad and crying. Each time she spots anyone crying on TV, she runs and comes over to me or her grandparents, rests her head in their lap and pretends to cry till the crying scene is on. Once the scene changes and she gets back to whatever she was doing.

I many times marvel at the fact that she is still less than two years of age but has surprising observation power and imitation skills. No wonder, every parenting book/ article/ expert says it often that kids are very good at picking up behavior and feelings expressed in words or otherwise than we credit them for thinking they are too young to understand anything.

The song on my mind: Ye Ladki Zara si ~ Love Story

Happy Endings

When I was just a little girl, I asked my grandma the secret to her long hair,

She made me sit by her side on the rocking chair;

That was the first time I learnt about Rapunzel,

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The princess with tower long tresses & eyes the color of hazel;

Telling me the fairy tale, she let her long tresses fly,

Neither loose, nor tied in a formal plat;

Proclaimed in her a careless hand of pride.

I wove and unwove it, wound and found it sweet,

Beauty, that nothing else in the world could beat;

She would weave loads of  love and sunlight in my hair,

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Making them long and strong with her tender love and care.

Day in and day out I spent time listening to fairy tales,

While braiding, styling, pulling and combing her beautiful hair;

I could style them anyway I liked,

Braid them straight or pull them tight;

I played with her hair and she pampered me,

My childhood was spent spinning memories.

I grew and so did my hair,

From pigtails to long, lustrous flair.

When teens stepped in, life was bare,

Grandma had left me and also her love and care;

Life  was busy and so was I,

Oiling, massaging were forgotten & so were the home remedies.

Studies, career and a new city,

Full of stress, pollution and no time to spare.

Split in the times of making room for my studies & other affairs,

The one thing that suffered the most was my hair.

They went dry, they felt rough,

Yearning to be loved and left to dry in air.

Styling, colouring, blow drying were only a temporary hit,

Finally my beautiful hair split.

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The hair that held in their length,

Memories and stories of my childhood,

Grandma’s love,

Cooking sweets together on stove;

The beautiful evenings spent with friends,

With them chasing me and then getting hold of me by my hair,

My school-mates tying birthday gifts to the ribbon in my hair,

Me playing the princess in every drama of the fun-fair,

Were all on the verge of being cut short.

My hairdresser pronounced them weak,

Their future bleak;

My heart was tangled,

In the curls of my hair,

I ended with a broken heart and short hair.

Love happened and my soul-mate wanted me to grow my hair.

I hesitated and worried, that worsened my hair’s already sad affair;

I would reminisce grandma sitting at the foot of the bed,

Watching her and listening to the music of her comb.

I tried every trick under the Sun,

Hair extensions and even played with bun.

But, nothing could match the beauty of natural, healthy, long hair.

My prayers were answered when Dove sent my way,

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The all new ‘Split End Rescue System’ in a giveaway;

The soft curls are back,

The pampered silken feel of grandma’s tender care,

The pecks on my cheek with every brush of my locks,

Have brought to me the good old times.

The splits are forgotten both in my heart and hair,

I am ready to rekindle my love affair,

With my hair growing long and strong,

Blessed with happy endings,

To last forever.

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The Song on my mind: Love me tender, love me long ~ Elvis Presley

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Living on the Edge

It feels like forever since I blogged. I guess this has been my longest absence from the blog ever since I started this blog. All I can hope at this point is that may this be my last long absence, for at the back of my mind I always want to come here and empty my worries, share my joys and be a part of the lives of hundreds of blogs I read.

Like every month, today too on its first day I am hoping against hope to write daily. If not a lengthy post a few lines, to get myself back on track on writing things about myself. The funny part is, during my absence I have been writing a lot for many reasons but still couldn’t find time to post.

Let’s put everything at the side today and talk about one thing that’s occupying all of my time and mind these days. Pari and her terrible tantrums.

I am sure most of you and almost all mums are well aware of the phase, ‘Terrible-Twos’  but in case of my daughter this dreaded phase is in full bloom right from the time she turned eighteen months.

It’s very exhausting both physically and emotionally. My day is spent playing the Tom cat chasing Pari who seems to outsmart me in almost everything like Jerry. It’s not all fun and entails a generous dose of drama, emotional meltdowns & violence too.

I am 100% sure that of all the things I wrote so far the one word that has caught everyone’s attention is violence.

Well, the sad news is it exists and the good news (yes, there is a good side to it as well) is the victim of that violence is everybody except Pari. Yeah, that’s the twist to the drama in my life.

I am seriously going to be writing a lot about her in the coming days for she is doing so many things at one time that I can write a novel on her even at this age.

The song on my mind: Main yahaan hoon ~ Veer Zaara

Navratan Mutton Curry

This is my signature recipe that has helped me win hearts with its rich flavors. It oozes the richness of carefully selected ingredients.

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The magical flavors in this creamy delight linger long after the meal is over.

A treat that has been relished by my family & friends from various parts of the world. It has seen many alterations to suit the health & taste requirements of my loved ones. I have mentioned the changes I make while preparing this delight on a daily basis while sharing the richer version to help you cook it for celebrations of life. I have cooked this dish in the Fortune Rice Bran Health Cooking Oil to keep my family’s heart happy & healthy.

Navratan Mutton Curry :

Navratan Mutton

Navratan Mutton Curry

Servings: 6

Difficulty level : Moderate

Ingredients:

  • Mutton (lean) – 1 kg

    Onion, Ginger & Garlic

    Onion, Ginger & Garlic

  • Curd – 300 g
  • Onion – 4 medium (finely chopped)
  • Garlic – 5 cloves
  • Ginger – 1 tsp paste
  • Green Chillies – 3 to 4
  • Cooking Oil (Fortune Rice Bran Health) – 3 tbsp
  • Creme – 2 tbsp (optional but highly recommended)
  • Salt – to taste

For Paste:

  • Poppy seeds (Khaskhas) – 20 g
  • Almond Paste (Grind soaked almonds) – 2 tbsp
  • Cashew Paste – 1 tbsp

Spices:

  • Cinnamon – 2 inch stick

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  • Bay leaves – 2
  • Black Peppercorns – 4 to 5
  • Black Cardamom – 2
  • Cloves – 2
  • Mace (Javitri) – 1/2 tsp
  • Star Anise – 1
  • Green Cardamom – 3 to 4
  • Turmeric Powder – 1/2 tsp
  • Red Chilli Powder – 2 tsp
  • Garam Masala Powder – 1 tsp

For Garnish:

  • Green Coriander leaves

Method:

  • Clean the mutton, thoroughly wash it & marinate it in a mixture of curd & salt. Coat the mutton well and set aside for 30 to 45 minutes.
  • Finely chop onion, ginger, garlic, green chilies (leave aside some of the finely chopped onion, ginger & garlic to fry) and grind them in a blender.
  • Also blend the poppy seeds, soaked almonds & cashew adding little water to form a smooth paste.
  • In a pressure cooker heat oil and add  bay leaves, green cardamom, cinnamon stick, black cardamom, black peppercorns & cloves and let the oil turn aromatic.

    Saute chopped onion, garlic & ginger till golden

    Saute chopped onion, garlic & ginger with whole spices till golden

  • After 30 seconds, add the finely chopped onion, garlic & ginger. Saute them till they begin to turn golden brown. Now add the prepared paste.
  • Mix well & now add turmeric powder, red chili powder, garam masala powder and mix well adding quarter cup water.
  • Cook for five minutes.

    Coat the mutton pieces in the masala

    Coat the mutton pieces in the masala

  • Add the mutton pieces marinated with curd and add half to one cup of water.
  • Cover and let it cook till the oil leaves sides.
  • If the mutton isn’t cooked through, close the pressure cooker & give 2 to 3 whistles.
  • Once the mutton is cooked through add the Mace & prepared paste of cashew, almonds & poppy seeds.
  • Stir well & cook for five more minutes.
  • Take the prepared dish off the flame and let it sit for five minutes before adding creme (if you choose to add it, though I avoided using it to keep the dish healthy).
  • Garnish with green coriander leaves.

Tip : The recipe can also be served with slivers of pistachio & almonds sprinkled to garnish it in royal style. Though on a daily basis I opt for green coriander.

Serving Suggestion: 

Serve hot with butter naan, roti, parantha or even pulao or biryani.

Nutritional Information: 

Lean Red Meat : Red meat contains large amounts of iron, creatine, minerals such as zinc and phosphorus, and B-vitamins. Red meat is the richest source of Alpha Lipoic Acid, a powerful antioxidant. Red meat contains small amounts of vitamin D.

Rice Bran Oil: Loaded with goodness & cholesterol lowering power, the rice bran oil is the perfect way of eating all your favorite recipes.

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This post is a part of Healthy & Tasty Recipe Contest with Fortune Rice Bran Health Oil & BlogAdda.com

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Matar Mushroom – Tasty bhi, Healthy bhi

Whenever we talk about healthy foods, the first image that rises in every mind is that of a recipe that has very little oil, looks bland and is something we wouldn’t want to eat by choice unless dieting or looking for supplementing a particular nutrient or strictly recommended to eat by our family doctor.  My perception of healthy foods is a little different. I term those foods healthy that are cooked taking care of the taste buds & appearance of the prepared dish as much as valuing the nutritional value.

Being the mother of a toddler who happens to be a fussy eater, cooking healthy recipes that fit the bill of being appealing to the ever-scrutinizing eyes of a baby as well as tasting good can be quite a challenge.  To keep myself from spending unnecessary time in the kitchen I try to prepare recipes that appeal to all age groups in my household. From a toddler to my aged parents.

The following recipe fits all these criteria seamlessly with the added goodness of Rice Bran Oil, that I use to cook  food in and is very easy to make with simple ingredients.

Matar Mushroom:

Matar Mushroom - Tasty bhi Healthy bhi

Matar Mushroom – Tasty bhi Healthy bhi

Servings: 4

Difficulty Level: Easy

Ingredients:

  • Green Peas – 1.5 cup

    Fortune Rice Bran Health Oil

    Fortune Rice Bran Health Oil

  • Button Mushrooms – 200 g
  • Onions (finely chopped) – 2 large or 3 medium
  • Ginger (finely chopped) – 1 inch piece
  • Tomatoes – 5 finely chopped (medium)
  • Green Cardamom – 2
  • Red Chilli Powder – 1 tsp
  • Turmeric Powder – 1/2 tsp
  • Salt – to taste
  • Fortune Rice Bran Health Oil – 1 tbsp

Method:

  • Chop the button mushrooms and set aside.
  • Heat 3 cups of water and add one teaspoon of salt to it. Turn the flame off and add the chopped mushroom pieces to the boiled salted water and set aside covered. It enhances the flavor of the mushrooms.

    Mushroom in salted boiling water

    Mushroom in salted boiling water

  • Heat oil in a wok. Add the green cardamoms and finely chopped ginger. Saute for half a minute and add chopped onion.

    Finely Chopped Onions

    Finely Chopped Onions

  • Once the onion is saute and the tips begin to turn golden brown add peas, red chilli powder, turmeric powder & salt to taste.
  • Pour one to two tablespoon water and let the peas come to a boil.

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    Peas mixed in the prepared masala ready to add mushrooms & tomatoes

  • Drain water from the mushroom pieces and add to the remaining preparation.
  • Add the chopped tomatoes and let the mix cook with a lid on. Take care not to stir too often to avoid mashing up the mushroom pieces.

    Chopped ripe tomatoes

    Chopped ripe tomatoes

  • Once the oil begins to leave sides and the peas are cooked well through this takes around 8 to 10 minutes, stir one final time and turn off the flame.

Serving suggestion: Serve hot with roti, parantha or naan.

Nutritional information:

  • Green Peas: Green peas are one of the most nutritious leguminous vegetables, rich in health benefiting phyto-nutrients, minerals, vitamins, proteins and anti-oxidants while being low in calories.
  • Button Mushroom: They contribute to the recommended daily intake of several vitamins and minerals with scientifically proven goodness in preventing heart diseases, cancer and enhancing immunity levels.
  • Tomato: Fresh ripe red tomatoes are very low in any fat contents and have zero cholesterol levels. Nonetheless, they are excellent sources of antioxidants, dietary fiber, minerals, and vitamins. Because of their all-round qualities, dieticians and nutritionists often recommend them to be included in cholesterol controlling and weight reduction programs.
  • Rice Bran Oil: Since it is a relatively new type of cooking oil for Indian homes, I chose to share all of its benefits that I personally found quite impressive before choosing to cook in the Rice Bran Health oil.Benefits of rice Bran oil-1

This post is a part of Healthy & Tasty Recipe Contest with Fortune Rice Bran Health Oil & BlogAdda.com

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